Muscle, Movement & Menopause: A Living Conversation

Muscle, Movement & Menopause: A Living Conversation

During menopause, as estrogen and progesterone decline, the body begins to change both hormonally and also in how strength, tone, and responsiveness are experienced. Strength may feel less present, and the body may ask for more rest between activities, sometimes needing shorter periods of activation.

Your muscles and your sense of responsiveness

We all carry two main muscle fibre types—slow-twitch and fast-twitch. Slow fibres support endurance and steady effort, while fast-twitch fibres are responsible for quick response, power, and reflex. During menopause, as hormonal regulation shifts, these fast-twitch fibres often become less readily available. These are the fibres that help you catch yourself, respond with ease, and feel agile and alive in your body.

Estrogen and progesterone also play supportive roles in the background of muscle health. Estrogen helps the body repair and recover after effort, while progesterone supports the body’s ability to soften and release tension by lowering muscle tone. As hormonal levels shift, recovery can take more time, and tension may linger more easily in the system.

Why you may feel your energy differently now

There is another layer underneath this: the small energy systems inside your cells, called your mitochondria. Muscle tissue holds many of them. When muscle mass decreases, there is also a reduction in overall energy availability. This can be felt as less stamina, less ease in sustained effort, or a system that depletes more quickly.

Muscles are part of a lively conversation between internal movement, organs, energy systems, the nervous system, and emotions. When muscles are functioning well and in balance, there is a greater sense of vitality, clarity, and inner steadiness. When they decline, the whole system feels it as reduced ease, capacity, and safety.

This shift in muscular capacity also influences how the nervous system organizes safety, regulation, and response.

When the body feels less strong or responsive, the nervous system can shift into a more protective mode. Through the HPA axis—the body’s stress regulation system—stress hormones such as cortisol may rise more easily, and the system can become more alert, sensitive, or on edge. Without the same hormonal cushioning and with less felt capacity to recover, the body may interpret everyday demands as requiring more effort than before

You may feel less trust in yourself and doubt yourself more. What was present can get amplified when the system is under strain. The inner critic may roar more strongly: you are not enough. You may feel more easily overwhelmed, or less able to meet what life asks of you.

In this way, your psyche follows the messages of the body: as internal capacity shifts, so does your sense of self and your perception of the world.

This can also shape how life is met. When internal capacity feels reduced, engagement with the world becomes less spontaneous—more careful, more effortful, less fluid. The system naturally prioritizes protection over openness, as if it is saying: I need more support to stay safe and steady.

Meeting your system where it is

As you begin to meet your system where it is, through your attention, movement choices, and how you are with your body, capacity can be restored.

As strength, coordination, and vitality improve, the nervous system begins to shift to: I can respond. I can be flexible. I can embrace life as it comes.

Movement that supports your system in different ways helps restore capacity. To meet life with resilience and vitality, the body and nervous system need movement variation. This allows them to reorganise, adapt, maintain muscle mass and healthy flow. This becomes especially important during menopause.

How my movement practices fit into this conversation

In my retreats, movement plays an important role in meeting your body, your nervous system, and opening to the many facets of who you are. Movement here is guiding, nourishing, and explorative across all layers of your being.

NIA Move to Heal naturally supports embodied vitality. It offers a variety of movement that nourishes strength, agility, flexibility, mobility, and coordination, while also supporting nervous system responsiveness and emotional regulation. It includes short, well-dosed bursts of strength and resistance, supporting the faster, more responsive muscle fibres that benefit from clear, focused activation.

The Feldenkrais Method refines how movement is organized through the nervous system. It improves coordination between muscles, so that unnecessary effort is reduced and movement becomes smoother, more integrated, and less effortful.

Together, these practices help restore communication between the nervous system, muscles, skeleton, senses, and emotions. Energy is used more efficiently, and movement becomes more fluid, responsive, and attuned to what your system needs in each moment.

Movement becomes a way of coming back into relationship with yourself and life, moment by moment. In this ongoing conversation, there is more listening, responsiveness, and room to simply be in your body with trust and ease and experience a more lived vitality.

More about the relationship between body, brain and behaviour

More about the relationship between body, brain and behaviour

How do you attend to yourself and your body?

In the previous two blog posts, I discussed the law of reciprocity, the social principle whereby an action is repaid in kind, and how this also exists internally between our mind and body. And how the body mirrors the way we treat it, how we care for it, and how we think about ourselves through specialized brain cells called mirror neurons.

How you think about yourself and what you tell yourself about your body, your wellbeing, your needs and how you take care of yourself is largely reflected in the way you pay attention to your body's messages, the way you move, eat, rest and the daily structure and routines you create for yourself. How you do anything is how you do everything.

When your body and nervous system often feel not heard in their feedback, your biology responds with a protective reaction, a defence mechanism. It may happen that the increase in intensity exceeds the bandwidth of your nervous system and body to process, resulting in your system becoming stuck in its defense mechanism. It does not feel safe with the incoming information arising from your movements, actions, and efforts. It reacts by shielding itself, closing itself off, contracting, freezing its capacity for moving...

This has a direct effect on how your system subsequently interprets signals from your external environment. Your movements influence the perceptions of your senses and your interaction with your environment. This can be experienced as feelings of tension, heaviness, or through increasing hyper vigilance, shadow breathing and emotions of fear, frustration, anger, sadness, a harsh inner critic chattering, limiting beliefs surfacing, and feelings of fatigue, low energy, and even sadness. Overtime this tension patterns can lead to little capacity to digest life, anxiety, chronic physical tension, immune disorders, tightness, gut stress, and low energy. Not cool! Happily you can help your system un-freeze.

We can help heal our neurobiology from habits of fear and hypervigilance by changing how we move and attend to sensations.

Here is what you need to know...

Your nervous system will only tell your muscles to release their contractions when it feels safe. Less is more here. It's like talking to an animal or a baby. Instead of yelling at a little one, we whisper little messages in a soft, friendly, calm, rhythmic, and gentle tone. Your conscious movements are like that tone of voice. Small, gentle, slow, and smooth movements tell the autonomic nervous system that the body is safe, that it will not be hurt. They tell the nervous system that it is being listened to and that its pace, rhythm, and capacity are being honored. They evoke sensations of pleasure and ease that are sent to the central nervous system, inviting it to give the signal to let go. And when the tension in the body is released, our emotional inner landscape and mental landscapes also change, as does our perception of the outside world.  A softer body and a relaxed nervous system look out into the world with openness, trust, and curiosity instead of hypervigilance, distrust, and fear.

Changing the response of our neurobiology does not happen through forcing ourselves or taking big leaps. It happens in the subtle interaction between intention and action. The moments when we pause and listen to the impulses our system gives us to feel better.

It comes down to moving slowly and attentively, while listening to the feedback from our body. This includes the way you eat and engage in daily action. And as you explore the roadmap of movement choices, you help your nervous system by paying attention to the sensory and emotional signals of pleasure and ease. Because through combining our actions with sensations of pleasure, and ease, we do exactly what our nervous system needs to rewire deep-rooted patterns of tension, vigilance, overwhelm, and fear. That is, we help it to change its attention pattern to sensations of pleasure, ease, and expansion so that it can rebuild trust in spontaneous interactions with its environment. This way you will soon no longer move through life with the brakes on, but can truly enjoy the experience of aliveness. That is what I call rekindling your inner Sparkle.

How about your inner Sparkle?

In the retreats from "Freeze to Flow" and "Pause, Listen, Reconnect with your Body", I guide you to help your system feel safe again and meet life with trust and joy.

Mirror, mirror on the wall 

Mirror, mirror on the wall 

Your body reflects your beliefs and images about yourself and the world.

The law of reciprocity, the social principle whereby an action is repaid in kind, also exists internally between our mind and body. The body mirrors the way we treat it, how we care for it, and how we think about ourselves through specialized brain cells called mirror neurons. Those neurons fire when we perform an action related to ourselves or our environment, and when we observe someone else´s action. They connect action to sensation and emotion, the language of your biology. Your brain does not distinguish between someone else's actions and your own actions. Your brain ‘mirrors’ those actions as if they come from a force outside yourself.

If you are often hard on your body, speak harsh words to yourself, neglect the needs of your body and soul, or if you do not understand your body's way and overburden it, your mirror neurons mimic that stress.
On the other hand, being kind to your body through care, appreciation, good nutrition, compassionate thoughts, and moving in tune with your body's natural pace, rhythm, and capacity can create a “mirror” that reflects a self-organizing system that radiates joy, vitality, inner peace, self-confidence, and self-compassion.

Here is the thing. We are often unaware that we are unkind to our bodies and behave in ways that are not in tune with them. We have unconscious beliefs and expectations, embedded in our culture, that we have grown up with and that have conditioned us not only in how and who we have to be but also in how we use and perceive our bodies and their rich language of emotions, sensations, and movement.  We may have internalised cultural beliefs that we are not good enough, that we must prove our worth by working hard, sacrificing our needs for others, dimming our light, or suppressing undesired emotions. Our body keeps that score. And here is the catch. This internal cycle of expectations and perceptions in your brain defines selfhood. How you “see” yourself in your mind determines how your body tries to look and organise itself to match your mental image.

What do you tell yourself?

Would you like to move those inner stories that are not serving your body and life?

My 7 Day dance healing retreat "Reclaim your Inner Freedom" is designed to help you move those stories that dim your sparkle and experience a lasting sense of wholeness and well-being again.

Our brain’s need for our physical antennae

Our brain’s need for our physical antennae

In this video, I talk about becoming more aware of how you use your senses - the physical antennae that monitor the physical world around you. They help the nervous system organise itself and they give the brain the right information to map itself in the here and now.

An important task for our brains, as the incoming information helps the brain create a predictable outcome to face the situations life brings us as efficiently and energy--savingly as possible.

When our brain does this successfully, we experience it as having the energy to do the things that are meaningful to us, and to have a sense of ease, peace, and joy as we move through our daily lives.

Help your brain come home by using your visual sense, your eyes

Help your brain come home by using your visual sense, your eyes

In this video, I talk about using the visual sense as a way to regulate the nervous system and help the brain map itself into the here-and-now physical- and human environment.

Did you know that our eyes play a big role in our social engagement? In this video, I will tell you about it.

I introduce you to a few minutes of orientation in your physical environment by letting your eyes off the leash of thoughts, images, emotions, and sensations inside. And to invite your mind to be a passenger of the eyes that wander.